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July 1, 2006

Question
A year and a half ago I lost my 21-year-old little brother suddenly and unexpectedly, I have not been able to come to terms with this. I can't move on, I'm stuck in a phase, I dream of him, I talk constantly of him. I cry out with deep pain of missing him - so hurt! Why can't I be at peace with him being gone? I know I can't bring him back nor can anything else. I cannot accept him being dead.

Answer
First, let me share my love and support with you for your loss. What a difficult life event to get through. I'm not surprised that it still hurts you so much.

The way you worded your question tells me that you see the issue so very clearly, but just can't get past it. Please be patient with yourself, it takes time. I can assure you, however, that your brother is in a light, safe place, and he tries to share that with you. As your pain lessens (and it will), you will be able to feel his supportive energy even more. Try to create a time each day to release his connection to the physical plane. He has moved on - his transition is complete, so you're not holding him here by any means. But, your constant pain is holding an image of him close to you. By releasing this image, you can open the door to a less painful life for you and make it easier for him to communicate with you (which is healthy, not scary). You will simply feel his presence near you from time to time.

So, try to tell yourself that he has made a healthy transition to the spirit world and that he is working on his own spiritual growth at the moment. Try to create that image of him melting away or flying away on a balloon - something that works for you, and see how it does.

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