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April 1, 2005
Question
Last month you mentioned confrontation in your answer. Confrontation certainly doesn't seem like a very loving way to interact. I like to find the "spiritual" way to talk to people, but when it comes to confrontation, I guess I really do avoid it. How do you know when is it appropriate to confront someone? Can you be loving and confrontational at the same time? It all seems so negative.
Answer
Good question, and, yes, you can be loving and confrontational at the same time. Confronting an important issue is just that, bringing up an issue that needs attention and forcing (if necessary) a discussion. I believe that you fear the word more than the process. Confrontation does not have to be an angry or even an unpleasant interaction. Is there someone you need to confront? I believe there is. Why not think (and feel) the situation through clearly and go to that person with an open heart and an open mind. Do not be stuck in your own energy. Be flexible and honest and more issues can be worked through. If you do hit a brick wall (that doesn't happen to often actually), at least you've tried. You need to feel good about whatever interaction you have.
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